It has gone off topic slightly, but I think a thread (

) about jacking issues, should also progress to general comments about the safety aspects of jacking techniques and wheel nut tightening. For those willing and able to change a wheel themselves.
Thread lubrication status and torquing techniques may be a bit over the top for some readers ,although its more important on some engineering tasks such as tightening cylinder heads. As always, if in doubt use a professional.
Wheel nut/bolts/studs are quite robust . I suspect the advice to concentrate on a particular torque setting is partly to ensure you dont inadvertently leave the nuts only finger tight.
Unless you are particularly frail or inept you may not go far wrong using the old diy rule of thumb...
Tighten the nuts as tight as you can by hand using a fairly short wheel wrench, as was typically supplied in the past for this purpose. Dont stand on it to increase leverage or use an extended wrench except for undoing tight nuts. I did this for many years without problems before starting to use a torque wrench. I suspect I used to overtighten them slightly in the past.
coldstart. Americans often complain that the British constantly apologise without really meaning it

Sorry if you find this comparison insulting