@ alpine yep sorry to say but welcome to the club. my one started at about 70k. @legend-ary is right it wont die i have made it to 73k and now it got louder, and its switched from whining to grinding.

now im currently on a hunt for someone to recondition the box, i have spoken to one mechanic and he said to me further driving will make it more problematic to recondition it as you may damage the housing. so fat it looks like its 500 for a recon box box, labour and box.
thanks for the links @ legend-ary im not sure of what i will do, im trying to find as many options as i can and once i have them on the table i will make a decision.