... Isn't there a way to use the EV battery start the car when the 12v battery fails, I think there is a car that can do this, can't remember the model.
For security reasons the HV system gets completely shutdown when the car is turned off.
The 12V battery is essential to prime the HV system which then in turn cranks the ICE.
Even putting in a "normal" 12V battery as per your suggestion wouldn't cure the root cause (only delay its effects), mainly: Driving the car only sporadically and/or only for short distances which will eventually result in a depleted 12V battery.
If you have this kind of motion profile you wouldn't even get great fuel benefits from the (quite elaborate!) e:HEV drive train because the engine never really gets out of cold start conditions.
A true EV would be the better and more "fuel"-efficient choice for such a use case (but would probably suffer from an occasionally depleted 12V battery as well).