HI
I thinks using bp ultimate fuel or the regular one does not matter.
you have said that that you have changed the egr valve yourself?, did you replaced a brand new one?
As described it its like suddenly the car is in 1st gear and lurches forward, it does sound sound a transmission problem, which includes the clutch slipping away. it might be yeah, and does it bother you a lot.
on your previous thread youve said you have tried consulting a local garage, can you try another garage for an independent views.
by the way how many previous owner it got and whats the mileage on the clock says..
hope everything would be alright..