But what don't you like about the idle stop feature? It seems a shame for you to be constantly disabling it. It almost never causes me any problems and whilst it probably isn't saving fuel or reducing pollution by huge amounts it is helping. My only gripe with it is one you won't have in that on the CVT version you have to keep the foot brake pressed at all times to keep the engine off.
Regarding the stop start feature there are a couple of reasons I don’t use it that often. The first one is that I’m sceptical about the amount of fuel saved vs the wear and tear on the starter and associated components. I agree that my fears may be totally unfounded and I am open to persuasion with some facts and figures. Also I have a car that is reluctant to start sometimes so this has some bearing on my decision not to use it. However I do use it in long traffic queues at roadworks etc. where I may be stopped for extended periods of time.
I don't think longevity of engine etc is taken into account with things like 0W-20 oil and stop-start - the makers are just happy to put a tick in a box that satisfies latest climate change regulations and gets them a small claimed gain in mpg. They will worry about engines wearing out prematurely at some later date, but for now - another box ticked.........

How many original buyers of new cars keep them long enough to notice any downside anyway ? And car companies are more concerned with new vehicle buyers and legislation than people who buy secondhand. I never use less than 5W30 oil in our cars and if I had stop-start I would turn it off.
As a case in point the regular failure of rear wheel bearings on MK1 Jazz (and other car brands BTW) was down to changing tried and tested taper roller bearings for ball bearings with less 'friction' but also less longevity, Taper rollers would often last life of vehicle, ball bearings about 40K on average - all the rear bearings on our MK1's had to be changed, some were changed twice.