Any thoughts on the ECU issue? It sounds a bit worrying although the Honda garage seems confident that the only issue is that of the faulty injector. I'm pretty sure if there was a way of getting extra cash from me then they would be delighted to do so! I'm thinking that this may be a rare problem and even when they have fixed the injector the other warning lights like EPS and VSA will reappear. I presume when they carry out the diagnostic test that the ECU would report if there was a fault within itself as well as other faults?
ECU damage from faulty injectors is not common, but not unheard of either. If anyone is faced with an expensive ECU replacement, I would recommend considering one of the specialist companies that repair ECUs, such as BBA-Reman or ECUtesting.
Random fault indications are often related to low system voltage - usually a low or failing battery, but can be triggered by a faulty component, such as a shorted sensor or injector.
A diagnostic test may not specifically report a fault that is within the ECU, but where this fault relates to the external interface, you would see error codes related to the running fault that the problem is causing - in the case of a dead injector, you should get an indication of a constant misfire.
IIRC failure of injector outputs is a known fault on the ECU of the mark 2. Really, the suspect injector needs to be tested, rather than the usual "change this and see if it fixes it" approach.
Further to this thread, I had a new 1.4 EX in 2012 and subsequently sold it within our family last year and last week this same issue arose.
I didn't get involved initially as I'm not local to the family member, but at the garage one injector was measured at 2.5 Ohm DC resistance where the other 3 were 11 Ohm.
Replacing the injector didn't fix it, so the ECM was sent to someone, who diagnosed a chip had blown. The chip was marked up as SSD 103 and a search on the web yielded just a datasheet and no stockist, could well be out of production. The chip manufacturer was ETC. The SSD 103 is a surface mount power transistor using lead-free solder on the PCB. the mechanical size of the chip is ~5mmx5mm. It is rated at 10amp max, which may tolerate the ~7 amps pulsing into the faulty injector, rather than the ~1.5 amps pulsing into the 3 good injectors. The duty cycle of injectors is higher when the engine is cold or at high speed/load, something around 60% per engine rev for each cylinder at full load.
There is no explanation for the injector failure which occurred within 5 minutes of starting the engine, other than the coil within the injector shorting turns out, reducing the resistance, increasing the current and exceeding the transistor rating, whilst not opening to deliver fuel. No amount of fuel treatment would have prevented this type of fault occurring.
Getting any progress at this time of year will be a struggle, but I've suggested sending the ECM it to one of the repair specialists mentioned in this thread.