I have now come to accept that the system is impossible to understand in a common sense way. That doesn't mean that there are not technical issues beyond the understanding of non engineers like myself - just that it will operate in circumstances that are, on the face of it, unfavourable and will not work after, say, a 100 mile motorway trip.
Today it's wet and cold. I have driven to and from Manchester. Didn't work at all on the way in even though it was dry. On the way back, in heavy rain with aircon, lights, wipers and radio on, it worked almost immediately after setting off.