There were/are two separate issues unfortunately
1) the delay in the infotainment screen starting up - could be 10 to 30 seconds with just a black screen. The update was supposed to fix that, but hasn’t.
2) separately, happens much less often, is where the system won’t recognise the phone - no matter what you do.
Power off and on and it still doesn’t work.
It can happen while you are driving and the connection just goes. Or it might be working on one trip, but when you go to continue and restart the car there is just a message saying no connection possible.
Some random time later it decides to work.
Has happened with two different phones, two different cables and also on wireless CarPlay.