Its best not to get paranoid about it. No car maker is completely immune from things going wrong . And the fact it takes a while to diagnose and obtain the parts is in some ways a positive. Better that than them knowing instantly and having the part in stock because it regularly fails. But not much consolation if it happens to you .
Cars are getting increasingly complex but they are better.
Also when looking at forums for any make of car you have to allow for the fact people tend to post about any problems or an aspect they dislike. "Its complicated" or "a bigger car would have suited me better" etc . Fewer post to say "'Nothing has happened and I love the car" But reading between the lines I get the distinct impression most mk4 owners are very satisfied with it .