Just to be clear, you've had the both anti-roll bar links, and the anti-roll bar bushes changed?
What's the tyre wear like? Inside, outside, both? Any sign of feathering on the edges?
Does the car tend to wander at the straight ahead steering position, or follow dips or bumps in the road?
Can you hear any clicking from the suspension if you rock the car on a flat, even surface?
On the face of it, it sounds like a significant tracking issue, possibly something that is moving adversely with steering input - steering rack, inner/outer track rod, wishbone bush, that sort of thing. The fact that you feel that you are having to put in more steering input also points to some sort of tracking error.
Things like bottom balljoints, ARB droplinks and ARB bushes can certainly be responsible for knocking and banging, but usually not any significant tyre edge wear. Top mounts can cause tyre wear, but they usually have to be pretty bad to cause the strut to move sideways, allowing similar tracking errors.