I use a large microfibre towel for drying. I'm astonished at how much moisture these things can soak up.
The average Brit washes his or her car 9 times a year. Only a tiny percentage, 3%, washes the car every week. About 6% claim that they never clean their car. The source for these stats was a leading car leasing company. Judging by my road, I think myself, and one other chap, are the only people to hand wash their cars in the drive with any regularity.
I'm not sure it's necessary to put a hard paste wax on a car. If you wash it safely at least once a month and apply a quick detail spray or similar, your car will be better cared for than 90% of other cars (can't remember where I got that stat). The whole car detailing scene is a bit esoteric with clay bars, machine polishers etc etc. That gives you a level of shine that is probably better than most but I think this level of car care is for hobbyists who want that extra 10%.