Had mine for 15 months now and really like driving it. The gear change is sweet, the fuel economy is great, it is comfortable even on longer journeys etc, etc! Most important is the 5* ncap safety rating as I have my mrs and 8 yr old daughter to think about, and the reliability is next most important.
As a "European" (even though I'm a true Brit!!), there's no stigma attached to driving small cars here, go to Paris or Rome and that's mostly what you'll see, young or old. I've not had anybody laugh at me yet but if they did - who cares, see how much you laugh when you have to change your DSG on your not so reliable BMW or AUDI. Eeexpensive - ouch.